Invasion

Yes they are beautiful. And they are insidious. I vowed not to introduce the Disney princesses to Rose, but if they found her and she was interested then that would be OK. Well, thanks to the marketing machine that is Disney, this girl who watches no TV was still accosted. And LOVES them! We now have Princess...

stickers
pants
several shirts
sneakers
a lovely velour hoodie and pants ensemble
undies
pajamas
books (many)
hair clips
electric toothbrush
hairbrush
sheets
lunch box
backpack
tiny little dolls
coloring books
rubber stamps
bracelets

And an Ariel Halloween costume (the one from when she has given up her mermaid identity and all that she knows and loves to become a princess). I tried to convince Rose that fairies were much more interesting because they can fly and do magic. She appreciates that but nothing compares with the glamour.

My Favorite

Lilacs remind me of two things...the long, full row of trees loaded with blooms of all shades that grew along and behind Gramarie's garage. You would just float along, buoyed by the scent...and visits to the Reiners in their old farmhouse. Lots and lots of gnarled old lilacs that perfumed every inch of that fascinating yard, barn and house...

Etiquette Explained

"Do you want me to lick your cheese?"

"Well, its actually not all that nice to lick someone else's cheese...but you can lick your own if you want."

"Oh. OK."

Fun

this is my favorite part of our construction project. well, at least in the top 5 along with the frame around the spigot for the hose, the pendant light, the pergola and the wide stairs leading to the yard in the back...

Hey Y'all

So as you can tell, not too much new is shakin' around here. And I'm thinking no news is good news.

We're desperately trying to wrap up those last dangling items on our home improvement project. I called the builder and warped the truth a bit to get our going-upstairs railing installed, and then politely nagged him to get the electrician to come and put in an outlet and rewire a light fixture/switch. On the landscaper issue...I took that one into my own hands and called the guy our neighbors use to mow their lawn to give us a price on dirt & grass seed since the builder was nowhere on that one. I also respectfully reminded said builder abotu 10 days ago that we were supposed to get a price for a fence on the side of the house and from the siding guy to do a couple of more little spots -- "...oh yeah, let me check on that...." Must be still checking. I might ask the landscaper if he can do the fence. The builder has actually done a beautiful job but our challenge all along has been getting on and then staying on his radar. In the grand scheme, we're a small job to him but it feels a huge project to us.

I've taken to wearing some reading glasses. You know, those sort of matronly ones you see at gift stores that are supposed to make visually challenged middle aged and beyond women look funky. I have my coke bottle glasses that scream late '80s, my polka dot funkies and two other very questionable ones. And the fact of the matter is, they help so much that I don't really care how ridiculous I look. Hey baby, my magnification is +1.25....what's yours?

At this point, we have no plans for the Fourth of July weekend. I'm kinda surprised its here already. I'm sure we'll be doing lots of splashing in Rose's ankle pool and that we'll find something or other to occupy our time quite nicely. Maybe a late afternoon beach visit? Love that.

A New Car!

In the immortal words of game show voice-overs everywhere, we have a new car! Well, we will on Tuesday or Wednesday this week.

What did we get?

http://automobiles.honda.com/accord-sedan/

Gunmetal grey exterior, medium grey interior. The important details.

So, RIP my CRV. I'm getting Tim's and he's getting the new wheels. New cars for everyone!

PG Tips

Last summer I had the incredibly good fortune to cross the pond for a lovely visit with my ex-pat pal Jimmie. Among my wonderful experiences were the highly potent teas which are sipped in England. Way more flavor and way more kick than what is served State-side. My favorite turned out to be Harrod's English Breakfast #14, which I brought home for Tim. As any reader here knows, he's a bit of a tea fanatic. So although I hadn't actually tasted H's EB#14, I thought it would be a nice chance to sample a taste of British tea. And it is SO good! Good enough that I asked friends to bring home as much as they could possibly transport for $50. And they had so many packages that they could only carry $30 worth. In the meantime, during the sad, sad gap when the first stash was finished and the new stuff arrived, I discovered PG Tips in the international aisle of just about every grocery store around. All I can say is Get thee to a grocery and try it/them!! So flavorful, so potent, so smooth going down. Cheers!

Mrs Kravitz Lives On!

So, we used to joke about our former neighbor, Elaine, who lived across the street. She'd lived in the house for over 50 years and knew everything there was to know about the neighborhood, the town, who used to live where, what houses were going for etc. She knew her profile and referred to herself as Mrs. Kravitz. She was also very handy because she worked nights so would be around to watch out for weird things happening during the day. Like the time Tim forgot to close the front door when he went to work and there were Rocky & Adrienne staring at Elaine when she got home at 8am. She called the police who did a walk through to make sure we hadn't been burgled (which we hadn't) and then let me know about it when I got home.

Elaine has gone condo and now we have a regular old family living across the street: Mom, Dad, two late teenage boys and a 13 year old girl. Its very different - they come and go at all hours, they're doing a ton of work on the house, and they use the front door rather than the one inside the garage so we see them all the time. Something over there is always catching my eye (or Rose's!) so we can't help but check out what they are doing on a regular basis. Mrs. Kravitz has her rightful replacement(s).

Another Saturday Night...

...and I ain't got nobody...reminds me of a song from 5th grade music.

Tim went to the Red Sox and Rose was in bed by 6:30 so I had a whole night all to myself. And I thoroughly enjoyed it!! I read a book (The Thirteenth Tale - very interesting!!) and sipped the proverbial cup of tea and when I next looked up 3 hours had gone by. OK, that's a bit of a lie because I had to find my reading glasses at one point because everything was going wonky, but you get the idea.

It was a very lovely evening. And the Red Sox won.

A Sojourn to Target

Here's what Rose & I bought on our most recent trip to Target (OK, this past Saturday. Can I go a week without hallowing those halls?):

2 travel size sunscreens for adults (one for each car)
2 travel size sunscreens for little kids (one for each car)
2 travel size packs of wipes (yep, one for each car!)
Goldfish (pizza flavored - yum!)
Barnum's animal crackers (very popular until we spied the afore-mentioned fishies)
Target brand string cheese (rather icky - a fine melange of salt & plastic)
4 tubes of A&D ointment for diaper rash
1 magnet for Tim/the fridge (Fender helocaster)
2 little kids cups with built-in, foldable straws
1 gallon whole milk
1 gallon 2% milk
an 8 pack of paper towels

PLEASE NOTE: Not one fun thing for me. Duly mark my restraint.

Hello Again!

Imagine if anyone really read this...they'd be rolling over in shock that I've done the first entry in 4+ months...my last entry was a little whiny so I apologize. Sleep is much better in our house I'm happy to report, and may it only continue to improve! Long live the zzzzzzs. Friggin' teeth & the overnight hungries!!

So, what else have we been up to? That is a very good question and I really don't know the answer. We used to do all these interesting jaunts and hikes and overnights and daytrips and now we play with Rose instead which is great. But wow, so different! Tim is venturing to our nation's capital for a long weekend with his family. Should be fun. Hopefully the weather will be good so he can do a segue tour of the monuments. A highly recommended activity courtesy of my sistah, Libstah. The girls will be having a lovely weekend including a photo shoot at Target followed by a wonderful shopping spree and some family visits.

I am happy to return to the world of the blog and hope to be a bit more present in my little corner of the web.

Sweet Relief

Today I discovered the joy of the Starbucks Venti Caffe Latte. Always a latte fan, but I had never so specifically indulged. There was a Starbucks in the grocery store I was rambling through, and Rose was up 3x last night, if you include both of us waking up at 4:30 and staying up since then. Twice if you don't. Hence my need for some hi-test. And I am very glad to report that they did not disappoint. I'm usually a Dunkin Donuts, more mellow blend kind-of-coffee gal (truly a tea drinker at heart but desperate times call for desperate measures) but whatever those baristas cooked up worked for hours upon hours. Now I fear that that experience might have been my personal Brigadoon, coming along just once every hundred years...

And now they are selling some very cute Christmas tree ornaments. Teeny little faux bags of coffee beans, and teeny little versions of their ubiquitous white cups. And a combo teeny cup with snowglobe.

House Work

Hopefully I'll get back to updating this site more frequently than once a month. Hopefully.

Work continues on the house. The driveway has been torn up, re-engineered and has 1 coat of asphalt on it. The final coat comes when all the other work has been done so there won't be any marks from the big trucks. From this fancy new driveway setup, we should never have another drop of water in the garage again unless we choose to put it there. That's kinda nice.

The steps have been torn out and are in the process of being rebuilt. All of the siding is coming off to be replaced with vinyl that looks like shingles. However, in the process of removing the outer layer it has been discovered that the underlayer is pretty rotted due to the poor design of the previous set of steps. Good thing we're doing this project now - it really could have been much worse if it was discovered Lordy only knows when.

The new shingles will be a lovely shade of yellow. I'm thinking of black shutters, white trim and perhaps an eggplant colored front door. Any other suggestions?

Day Off

So Tim & I took today off and nastily put Rose in daycare so we could have a date day. It was awesome. We did some errands in the morning including upgrading our cellphones to the Verizon Chocolate. So far we love them! A combo MP3 player and phone. What could be better AND its one less gadget to carry around, recharge, worry about etc. And my fun, free ringtone sounds like a Donna Summer song from the 70's. Really, this phone is the greatest!

Then we zoomed to Wingaersheek Beach. It was such a perfect September day - clear skies, 75 degrees and a nice breeze. The water was about 1000 shades of turqouise and looked like the Carribean. There were more people there than we expected - I think due to Rosh Hoshannah. Anyway, we got a huge kick out of watching some kids plunk big huge rocks the size of a bag of flour into the water off these little cliffs and listening to some other big boys talk about how the green things in the water must be aliens. So we were laying on a humungous rock watching the swirling water in a crevasse as the tide came in, and failed to realize that the water was actually getting higher everywhere on the beach and that we were now stranded on said humongous rock. Hmmm. I just plunged in and the water was up to my knees. Did Tim warn me first that I might want to roll my pants up? Yep. Did I think I wouldn't need to? Yep. Should I have rolled my pants up? Yep. After witnessing this, Tim rolled his pants up over his knees and plotted the best route to a dry landing. However, his sunglasses messed up his depth perception so he was perched on a boulder the size of about 5 basketballs combined together for quite a while trying to decide what to do next. Finally he just decided to take the plunge and the water only came up mid-shin so it was much ado over the proverbial nothing.

It was very kind of Rose to give Tim & I this day together as its been a very long while since we did anything just the two of us. We even picked her up early from daycare and she came home and just walked and walked and walked. I think it might be safe to put her in a dress again as the danger of getting rugburn on her lower legs while crawling in shorts or dresses seems to be a thing of the past. You go Rose!

Checking In

My apologies to my reader that there has been a dearth of entries of late. Don't ask me what I've been doing instead because I couldn't even begin to tell you....and that's not being mysterious or evasive, its just being truthful. Our days consist of work and then spending a little time with Rose and then spending a little time with each other. And the Red Sox...always the Red Sox. However it could be some horrendo activity instead so I really should just quit the griping.

Rose is growing like crazy and is on all table food which is so great. The only drawback is that she is now just about walking independently so she gets SO tired by the end of the day that she doesn't want to put a lot of energy into eating. So she doesn't eat enough and is waking up overnight again. Rats! My new obsession is baby friendly protein and getting a decent amount into her before she goes to bed. Tonight she ate TWO yo-baby yogurts and some cheese, some crackers and some puffs. And probably some other stuff too but I don't remember what else. She really has quite a smorgasbord offered to her every day and she eats well, just not enough at night. But we will prevail!

What Rose is up to...

Rose will turn 10 months old tomorrow, August 6. Amazing! Just to think that she was such a little newborn unable to do anything for herself just a short time ago to being the powerhouse she is now...

She loves using the phone (we call the weatherman), patting the kitty, shaking any furniture she can, seeing dogs, going outside, waving at people and her favorite things, eating yogurt, reading books that feature faces of little kids, playing with straws and lots of other fun things.

We're going on a picnic today at the gazebo at Lake Quannapowwit in Wakefield with our pal Lyn and her daughter Lulu. Lulu turns 1 this month so is training Rose on what to expect.

These ROCK

These CDs are awesome. Tim got the U2 version for Father's Day from Drew & Suzanne. Be kind to yourself and get one even if you don't have kids. They're great to nod off too and for interesting background music. Tim's nephew is a big hip hop guy and is expecting his first baby. Let's hope Rockabye Baby! expands their repetoire in the next 6 months!

Today is one of those postcard perfect days...blue sky, puffy white clouds, comfy temperatures. Aaaah, the joys of summer. We celebrated by meeting my sister, Libby, and her son, Sam, at Logan as they arrived to spend a few days on the Cape. Libby thought she'd need a hand corralling Sam, hauling suitcases & a stroller and getting whatever else together that she'd need en route to the rental car office. So we went in and spent a lovely hour or so at Logan. Libby and Rose had yet to meet in person, so it was a great opportunity.

We returned home to feed the girlfriend and then ventured out to do a couple of errands, which included picking up 5 lavender plants for the front yard. We have a space where a big oak tree used to be that is currently home to 5 lavenders, and they are getting 5 new neighbors. Its going to look and better yet smell awesome.

I recently returned from a wicked awesome long weekend across the pond in jolly old London. It was great to get away and be just me for a little while. I slept like a rock and thoroughly enjoyed every minute. I was amazed that a) I had no jet lag either way and b) I didn't feel a wince of guilt all weekend. Woo hoo! If you've never been, please go. If you have been, please return. It is the most fabulous of cities. Close second for me is Washington DC and/or San Francisco.

My pal Jimmie invited me to Royal Ascot which was the reason for the jaunt. It was a hoot. Here are some photos...as you know, Ascot is all about the attire.

What a Difference a Day Makes

As that song performed by the fabulous Dinah Washington goes, what a difference a day makes. The construction dudes finally came back after I called and sort of exaggerated/fibbed about having people over on Sunday and being concerned about little kids falling off the porch. The event has been relocated from our house to Attleboro, but I didn't tell him that...

OK , here is how it looked yesterday.

And here is how it looks today

We are so close to being done I can almost smell it. We need railings on the stairs and the thingies across the roof to complete the pergola. Our architect originally thought the columns were "too grand" for our house but I love them!

Admiration

So Tim & I have a friend, Lyn. Lyn is probably 43 years old and is a widow. Her husband of 15 years died about 5 years ago from cirrhosis of the liver. It couldn't have been an easy life together. He was from England, they met during her junior year abroad. They married after she graduated from college and then moved to California so he could try his hand at screenwriting. After a good number of years and some success, they decided to move to Boston as it was a city they both loved. They ended up buying a fixer-upper in Wakefield, then he got really sick.

So after Lyn helped him through the end of his life, she took some time for herself and then decided to fulfill her lifelong dream of becoming a parent. Lulu, her adopted baby girl from Guatemala, was matched with Lyn in the fall and they spent Christmas together. Lyn got the amazing news that Lulu was ready to come home in February. So back to Guatemala she went, and then brought Lulu home. Tim was given the honor of being Lulu's male role model in the adoption process. Lyn asked him as we see Lyn weekly at church and she's seen how well he interacts with the kids. In addition, Tim was also given the honor of being Lulu's godfather. The baptism was yesterday and I just couldn't have been happier or more proud of Lyn. What an amazing person. She has experienced more in her 43 years than most by far, and she is just so very happy to be Lulu's mom. Yay and lots of love and best wishes for a truly happy life together to both of them!